Like me, I hope you have fond memories of your grandparents. When invited to grandma’s house for lunch, I could always count on having something on the table she knew I liked. Grandparents are very special and we need to care for them as much as they care for us.
Unfortunately our grandparents, parents and older adults are the target of many types of scams received over the phone or via an email. These scams attempt to deceive with promises of goods, services, financial benefits or the need to send money to pay taxes, fees or to help someone they love. Their stories are contrived for one purpose and one purpose only, to get money. Below is just one example of these schemes.
Scammers place a call to an older person and when they answer, the scammer will say something along the lines of: “Hi Grandma, do you know who this is?” When the unsuspecting grandparent guesses the name of the grandchild the scammer most sounds like, the scammer has established a fake identity without having done a lick of background research.
Once “in,” the fake grandchild will usually ask for money to solve some unexpected financial problem (overdue rent, payment for car repairs, etc.), to be paid via Western Union or MoneyGram, which don’t always require identification to collect. At the same time, the scam artist will beg the grandparent “please don’t tell my parents, they would kill me.”
One of the best ways to protect our loved ones from these types of tactics is to talk with them about it. Building awareness is the first step. If they are willing, another step might be helping them with paying bills and balancing their bank accounts.
If you have been or know someone who has been a victim; don’t be afraid to talk about it with someone you trust. You are not alone, and there are people who can help. Doing nothing could only make it worse. Keep handy the phone numbers and resources you can turn to, including the local police, your bank (if money has been taken from your accounts), and Adult Protective Services at 1-855-444-3911. Call anytime day or night to report suspected abuse of vulnerable adults.